I changed all the o-rings (not B3) to new ones, changed the seal rings to Volvo plastic ones, exchanged my worn center support to one with less wear, did my best to align the center support and C2 AND put that little throttle valve to correct place -> the result is that the gear box is now upshifting perfectly. Thank you all for your help.
The next thing to figure out is the extremely rough engagement to R, D, 1 and 2 from P or N. I have modded the accumulators but is it too much?